- Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
- Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
- Don’t believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
- When you say, “I love you,” mean it.
- When you say, “I’m sorry,” look the person in the eye.
- Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
- Believe in love at first sight.
- Never laugh at anyone’s dreams. People who don’t have dreams don’t have much.
- Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it’s the only way to live life completely.
- In disagreements, fight fairly. Please No name calling.
- Don’t judge people by their relatives.
- Talk slowly but think quickly.
- When someone asks you a question you don’t want to answer, smile and ask, “Why do you want to know?”
- Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
- Say “bless you” when you hear someone sneeze.
- When you lose, don’t lose the lesson.
- Remember the three R’s:
Respect for self;
Respect for others;
Responsibility for all your actions.
- Don’t let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
- When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
- Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
- Spend some time alone.
“I can’t, I can’t, I can’t, I can’t”! No matter how many times you say it to yourself and other people, that won’t make these two little words powerful or any less weaker than what they already are. Removing “can’t” from your vocabulary should have happened 20 years ago. You would have done yourself a huge favor and spent more time loving and living life.
Always believe in yourself, and know that you CAN do anything you put your mind to. Your thoughts will eventually become your reality. If you cloud your focus with negative thoughts, your reality will begin to reflect that dark and dull life that you think about more than what you really desire. Flood your thoughts with dreams, hope, faith and positivity. Clutter your mind with nothing but happiness if you have to. Focusing more on what motivates and inspires you will leave you with less time to repeat and abuse the use of negative and worthless words.
One of my biggest pet peeves is the use of the word “CAN’T”. Replace the doubtful words and thoughts with one powerful statement: “I can do all things through Christ Jesus”. With him you can conquer the World. First you must realize the damage that your thoughts can cause, and start adopting power statements into your day to day thought.
noun 1. a person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal regard. 2. a person who gives assistance; patron ; supporter: friends of the Boston Symphony…
People seem to misunderstand or misinterpret the definition of “friend”. A word that is thrown around frequently amongst a group of strangers and acquaintances. The title “friend” should not be given to the first person that pays you a compliments or takes you out to lunch. There’s more to being a friend than coordinating outfits and sharing your deepest dark secrets. Learn the difference between friends, foes and acquaintances early in life, and save yourself from future headaches and disappointments.
Friends motivate, support, encourage, share positive moments and help you find the humor in negative one’s. Friends don’t attempt to embarrass or belittle you, encourage you to choose a road to failure or talk about you behind your back. Friends don’t only call when they need something or if they have juicy gossip, friends will call to see how your day is going. Friends don’t focus on the negatives, they remind you of the many positives. Friends take your feelings into consideration and won’t judge you for having emotions. If you find yourself encouraging and supporting a so called “friend” that doesn’t support you, reconsider that person’s title and place in your life.
There’s different types of foes disguised as friends:
Having a backup plan in life is very important, in business and in your personal affairs. Plan B is a necessary preparation for failure or change. Many people live by the motto “failure is not an option”. This is a great motto to live by and it gives the impression of unwavering faith. However, don’t assume hurdles are impossible for you and your situation. Some believe that your Plan B is more important than your Plan A. I agree.
Having faith that you can achieve your goals and live out your dreams were discussed in my previous post. The actual process and plan of reaching your goals has nothing to do with doubting yourself and losing faith. It’s called being realistic and putting in hard work, blood, sweat and tears to achieve the success, love and happiness that you desire. Just because you believe, doesn’t mean you DON’T have to work hard to achieve. You do! And assume that you have to work harder than originally planned in Plan B.
Plan B is being mature enough to say “Okay, this way didn’t work. There has to be a better way to achieve this”. Immature fools will give up too early and prove that they were never prepared for life’s hurdles. Always remain prepared for unsuspecting obstacles. Gather your blueprint and choose the plan that get’s the job done. It sounds simple enough, but people continue to forget one of the most important components, your Plan B.
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“Thoughts Become Things” is such a powerful. Many years back, a friend of mine introduced me to “ ”. My life changed almost immediately right before my eyes. It wasn’t because I watched this documentary and felt like a better person. It was because I paid attention to the point and the message, and applied what I learned to my life and to my thoughts. In the end, I adopted “The Secret” & believed in the . “The Secret” has opened so many doors for me. Great writers, doctors, poets & artist were already aware of how powerful the law of attraction was. And thankfully, now I know what the secret is. Hopefully you will pass what I have passed on to you to someone else.
This is only the first 20 minutes of “The Secret”; Yet it still sends out a very good message to those that are unaware that your thoughts can greatly affect your life. Faith is the key here. Keep your faith on landing your dream job, or meeting your dream companion and whatever else you want out of life. The law of attraction will bring things in your life that you think about the most. One point in “The Secret” and a great example is when you find yourself thinking about bills and constantly stressing about more bills, you’re only attracting more debt to yourself when you should focus on the money to pay your bills.
Hopefully you run out with excitement and buy “The Secret” for yourself like I did. I hope this brings you fortune, education, employment and whatever else your heart desires. I listened to the message, I applied it & I received many blessings from spring cleaning my thoughts. Give it a try. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain from “The Secret”.